Secondly I get nervous that people won't catch all the meanings that I threw in this analogy. So let me know if you catch it all at the end.
I am writing this now because maybe there are others that feel, felt or may feel this way later and it might help, maybe not but here you go anyway.
Written 3+ years ago... (sorry its long)
The Rope
An analogy with my feelings and religion
An analogy with my feelings and religion
I am at the end of some rope. I
look around and see many people on ropes as well. “The goal is to get to the
top,” I thought. “You have to be strong and believe.” I watch others climb high
or others who struggle to even hold on like I am. I suddenly see that my rope
is down to a few strings that are holding together. I wonder if the so called
goal really matters, what the view looks like from below, how it would be to
let the rope break, and what would happen if I did. But I know that if I did it
would be virtually impossible to get back up to where my rope is.
As time goes by I see others
strength and get empowered that I too want to repair my rope and climb high. I
believe and have a new found energy so I pull out some tools to strengthen my
rope. But wait, these tools are few and small which make it difficult to work
with. I can manage a measly fix. I look around at those that are fixing their
rope too and their tools are BIG and helpful. What took me hours to fix they
did easily. “How can I get tools like that?” I wondered.
So one day when I was
back at the bottom of my rope and my measly fix had broken down again I asked
someone next to me to borrow their tools to fix my rope. As they passed it on
over I eagerly and excitedly took the tools but the instant I touched them they
shrunk to the size of my own tools. Saddened I passed them back and used my own
to mend another paltry fix as I once again looked below wondering what it would
be like to let go, and then looking up wondering what it would be like to be up
high.
Some days I look up, and see all
the strength and power others have. One day I noticed a few people on a ledge
that their rope leads up to. They aren’t working hard to go up but then they don’t
drop down either. Although it’s a slippery slope and if they aren’t careful
they could fall. That doesn’t entice me one bit. I want to be high on the rope
working hard and believing, or not. The ledge is ugly and those on it deep down
don’t seem strong at all, in fact they seem like they have gotten weaker and
wouldn’t be able to stay up as high as they were if they get back on.
“Pointless,” I muffled.
I work hard to get up just a little
bit. I begin to think I am doing great but then that worthless fix breaks down
again and I slip right back to the bottom. I’m tired of being in the middle. I
either want to be stalwart and climb high or I want to be down off the rope
with the confidence that I don’t want to go to the top and know it isn’t MY
goal. I also know that I can’t let go and take my whole heart with me. But I am
holding this rope for dear life feeling like this is what I want, and some days
proclaim that it is what I choose but still seem to end up in the same place.
So I instead hang on, hoping that one day I will know how to make my tools big
and helpful, to be believing and so strong to work towards that top.
It gets lonely here though
sometimes. If I could just be high on that rope with some loved ones or to let
go and be with other loved ones it would be easier it seems. Easier because I
wouldn’t have to fight to know what my goal is, what I really want.
So I inspect just that. What is it
that I really want? What is my real issue? I look below and see so many loved
ones. I see many things that I agree and think is better than the rope that
keeps hanging by threads. There are many things that I see as a benefit and
believe in those reasons why it would be better to let go. There are downsides
though, parts I disagree with and would not want to be a part of. But at the
same token I look up and see the same thing. As much as I hate to admit it,
part of the issue is either way I go I leave loved ones behind. I feel so
connected to those below, maybe they’re the ones that keep pulling on my
strings and loosening them. Some people may cut those string far enough below
so they don’t have access to them. Sadly, I can’t. I realized a reason that I
can’t is because I can see a glimpse of their view and I am intrigued and even
partially believe that it might be a better road.
So where do I go from here? I’m not
sure. So I hold on at the end of my rope hoping that it will be enough for now
and hope that something, the better thing for me, will give.
OK so few questions, do you grasp what I'm meaning with the ledge?
Do you understand what I am trying to say overall?
Questions to clarify anything you might not get?